As you strive to achieve maximum efficiency, it is useful to teach your mind and body work in close unity with each other to achieve the desired erection as soon as possible. The purpose of this training - to give both partners the assurance that they will be able to improve the effectiveness of controls over the penis after erection.
Of course, this is normal and good, if your penis is lifted immediately, as soon as you start to make love. But what if this does not happen? And what happens if during the pre-game or in the midst of sexual intercourse, he had already dropped?
The only thing do not have to do is to panic or lose confidence in the ability to achieve erection. You will be able to control the erection much better than it seemed - with the crucial help and support you will have your mental and physical condition as well as the right response partner.
For the training you need notepad. In two weeks - with the faithful and regular execution of the exercises - you can not only achieve erection when you want, but do it for half that time to spend now.
Divide the notebook into 14 squares. In one square for each day of training. Then each of them divided into sections: the time of erection, the peak time of erection, opadaniya time, length, thickness, and notes. The only thing you need to exercise - tape measure, stopwatch, if available, or wristwatch with second hand and pen to record.
Find a place where every day at the same time, you will be able to remain alone with them without the risk of strangers. I understand that this is not always easy, but we must try. The room should be warm and comfortable, but if circumstances allow you to use the bathroom, do not worry, it will come. But it is clear that in the dressing room, you will not be able to relax sufficiently, so the results may not be as impressive »as if you were alone with him in a warm bedroom. But in any case, significant improvement is guaranteed.
If possible, remove all clothing and loans position that are convenient for practicing masturbation. You do not need to be close at hand any erotic pictures, or magazines - no artificial stimulants. All stimulation should occur in your own brain, it will be one of the ways that you can make the brain work and the penis is in full harmony.
Turn on the stopwatch and simultaneously start to masturbate as soon as you can. Purpose: To quickly reach the highest point. While masturbiruete, think only about the most excitatory things which only come to mind. It is best to let them have tried and reliable sexual fantasies, usually leads to the desired result. For example, a fantasy about ways that you would like to make love to his wife or his girlfriend. Or focus on the sensations that you feel, being in the middle of the day naked in a room and frantically masturbiruya.
If the initial erection not to make a mark in the notebook, how long it took you to achieve full hardness of the penis. Then masturbiruyte so quickly and strongly as it can, to achieve the highest peak, focusing on the fact that most excites you.
Learn to focus. Learn how not to think about anything more than the ever-increasing sexual initiation. Imagination is more zoom you to the highest point. Focus solely on the penis, burning it looks empty.
Here's what Kevin said, 28 years, the department store sells a White Plaine, New York: «I always played with the fantasy that I was kidnapped fifteen girls from the women's gymnasium. They zataskivayut me into his bedroom and undress. Then, and undress themselves. They begin to touch me, touch all parts of my body, then one after another sosut my penis. They climb in my face teats, leads them all over his body - I can not do anything. For hands and legs tied to my bed, and them too much. They are stronger than Tiscali and shaking me and put me on a member of a condom. Here's where my imagination begins to partially coincide with reality. I think that one hand is not mine, but a girl who puts me a condom. I barely touch their heads faster waff fingertips. Sometimes while I stroke the second hand of a testes, representing that it makes the other girl. I have more dreams that one of the girls sits me on the face. Her vagina is placed directly against my mouth, so that I can barely breathe. All a person covered by juice evolved from there. Her face with wide-open mouth bends over my member, pending when it rises. Here's the place to which it usually comes my imagination, and then comes ejaculation ».
I have a lot of descriptions of such fantasies, used by men in masturbation sessions, most of them stated that, by the love with their wives and girlfriends, they resorted to fantasies significantly less. «I have dreams sometimes, when to make love with Fred, but then it becomes an integral part of all fantasies, it said 35-year-old Leonard of San Francisco. Usually, I imagine her slave, as she does not suspect. I bought it on the market either slaves, or somewhere else, in short, it was me. She is constantly naked, and I can deal with her love where want, when want and how to want ».
I was interested to learn that Fred will say about this fantasy, which learns. «I do not know. I can not even imagine how she would respond. Never talked to her about it. Sometimes it is not even a fantasy, but just a feeling. There for a moment and then disappears. I think she thought it would be strange to me ».
I am convinced Leonard to tell Fred about this fantasy and do not be afraid that it would take him for «strange». As it turned out, Fred has found this fantasy for a flattering and exciting. Then they both incorporates it into practice: Leonard tied wrists and ankles to the back of the bed, Fred, knotted scarf his mouth, and they played the whole scene. Both of them admitted that the game had resumed their interest in sex, but Leonard said: «This is my fantasy moves from the head in the bedroom».
At the time the highest point of excitation - which fired the first trickle of sperm - press the stopwatch and the fix is exactly the time that was spent to achieve orgasm from eregirovannogo member. You can also mark yourself, how many sperm izlilos spasm out and how much you have experienced with this.
In the first act of this kind of masturbation, you are likely to very quickly reach the highest point. At the second, third, fourth day, when you are in the usual time you enter the room to engage in masturbation, we found that we would need a little more time to become a member of a firm and you can reach a peak orgasm. You'll also find that your attention was once easy to disperse, after so you have enough of sex acts during the week to get the satisfaction, at least physically.
And here it is now your concentration and training play a major role. You can not feel the approximation of the highest point of excitation, can not even notice how masturbiruete. The main thing is that you need - is to awaken in ourselves the most powerful dreams and fantasies, which only can give your imagination. Then you should work on the penis a way that best promotes your excitement, so quickly and strongly as soon as you can. During masturbation, continue to strain and relax the muscles perineum. This will help to maintain the erection and keep seminal fluid in the prostate gland.
It does not matter what type are your imagination. You have only one goal - accelerating erection and the accompanying high point of enjoyment. On the fifth or sixth day, you notice signs of improvement in concentration, but on the tenth day can feel like you succeeded in retaining control over the erection of penis and the extension of time to enjoy higher.
You may have noticed that the sperm did not vomit as much as the first day, but semyaizverzhenie can be increased, because now through the perineum muscles you can control the process. The number of sperm is increased precisely because of the effective stimulation of the prostate.
You do not immediately see the improvement. But we must learn from the failures. You know exactly what fantasy guarantee erection, and what does not. Perhaps you create a new fantasy, even more erotic than ever. You will also learn the limits of their abilities to concentrate on the most important.
High sex depends on how much you absorbed what was being done - a pleasure to partner, get the pleasure that it gives you.
Many men, having mastered the science of purification of thinking different from everyday cares and concerns, external disturbance, observed that this activity contributes to the achievement of very good high-performance sex. As I said 27-year-old Denise from Los Angeles: «You can not enjoy the exercise love fully, if half of your brain is still trying to cope with household budget or busy issue choice menu for tomorrow's dinner. There was a time when I used to love classes half a brain. When Rick told me: «What is it with you? Why are you such a cold? »- Until I got what I was doing. Sex was turned into a routine, like shopping trips. I make love just like walking with a bag on the market or to remove children from school ».
After two weeks of high-speed masturbation you'll see that your ability to achieve erection and rapid ejaculation has improved markedly. You can do exercises on the high-speed masturbation is not necessarily a period of two weeks, but longer, as long as you need to learn to focus and improve their sexual ability.
Interestingly, the high-masturbation may help men suffering from premature ejaculation. Although it might seem that the ability to reach the highest point very quickly - not the most necessary. Controlling ejaculation, which provide these exercises, equally good solutions to any problems that can occur in men to achieve erection and maximum sexual pleasure.
If, however, after two weeks of practicing high-speed masturbation you will still continue to suffer from premature ejaculation, try to switch to the exercises with the slowing masturbation. This implies masturbation strong, but slow, and with the impending orgasm, you will need to make a pause. In other words, you should postpone the time of ejaculation and how can this continue with the sexual samostimulyatsiyu.
After three weeks of such exercises male semen vomit before, not having to enter the vestibule, discovers that he is now able to continue sexual intercourse without ejaculation and «three or four minutes ... yet I have not started to worry about it », then« to five minutes or more - until I do so want ». The person who sent the letter, certainly knew that his penis - this is not a separate creature, which he had not the power, but control of its own body.
Men do not have to all this activity with a high / maloskorostnoy masturbation itself. Depending on the nature of sexual problems and individual circumstances can be even more helpful if you assist him in reaching the highest point would be a woman.
Clyde, 32-year-old driller from Paskaguly, Mississippi, wrote: «I have always had problems because I was finishing too quickly. It began with my first wife, who was two years older than me. It was always the impression that it was a nurse taking care of our relationship, and that I was very fidget ... and causes premature ejaculation. Sometimes I was just enough to touch her «киски», and I immediately regurgitate it Cursed place. When I got married a second time (to Belinda), at first everything was in order, but then I started to worry again about their sexual problems, and has come about the same ... ejaculation without the slightest strain. Then I tried bystroskorost-ing masturbation. I can not imagine how it could help me. Since the early semyaizverzhenie was my problem, I do not think it would be useful to know that shows how to achieve semyaizverzheniya even faster. But in reality, the exercises have given me more control over semyaizverzheniem, giving the first control himself. I began to understand that the care of your body, and began to understand his reactions ».
After two weeks of classes bystroskorostnoy masturbation alone with a Clyde decided to try to slow masturbation using Be-Linda. He tried, as far as could delay the onset of orgasm and semyaizverzheniya teaching while Belinda, how to compress his penis to prevent premature ejaculation.
«We lezhim side by side in one bed undressed, and Belinda is very slowly massages my member until it was not filled with blood and not zatyazheleet. I felt the desire to ask it to expedite their handling, but it continued to do so slowly, up and down, up and down, compressing the penis shaft and head massaging fingertips.
The first signs, I began to feel after a few moments after the start of the exercises - in the depth between the legs. Because of my membership began to sap, and soon Belinda massage my head, as if floating in the greases. I knew that there would have only two or three movements, that I had finished, and therefore asked her to stop. She was firmly squeezed my dick, thumb upersya just below the head of the base channel member nakrutila around his little finger, wrist vyvernuv and the excitement gradually subsided.
We have again and again repeated this, and so lasted about forty-five minutes. Never before had I not kept for so long, not reaching orgasm and ejaculation ... although this time I just was not ready to finish. As. only I felt that just about sorvus up, I gave the command to stop Belinda, she stopped massage and compress the member, as I described above.
Finally we decided that I had been able lasted a long time. Belinda climbed on me and sent me a member of «pussycat». I usually do not like when it is on top ... have a sense that I can not control themselves, that I am not a real man. But now I feel different. I moved to a member as deeply into it. Then upersya in the bed and lifted his hips so that Belinda practically hung on me, not touching the bed. My member penetrated so deeply that even touched on the uterus, and it made her cry.
I still continue to worry until suddenly did not understand that is not going to stop, and immediately calmed down. I am quite able to control the sensitivity and the onset of orgasm. Belinda finished the first - it was surprising - the first time she had finished before me. I could feel a pulse, and her vagina clench me a member with such force that you do not even believe it. Then I also finished, but how! I was just in pieces, of five or six times in a row. Fair call, I thought that the unconscious. Belinda rose from me, and the sperm is literally poured out of her vagina on my thighs ».
Clyde is a classic case of men with premature ejaculation. His marital relationships and conflicts with the first wife contributed to the development and consolidation of the painful condition. As Masters and Johnson, in «Human sexual inadequaty»: «man impotent wife is inclined to perceive as an actor, its sense of self-humiliation. After all, she - the only creature who knows well the depth of his inadequacy: he feels that he could not take a man in her presence. Women with these or other disadvantages of sexual function, can achieve revenge itself, or at least an apology - verbal attacks or any similar means. In fact, in such a situation, it should be entirely on the side of her husband's persistent desire to overcome his alienation to help ».
The first wife of Clyde - although he and answer it too kindly - considered it premature ejaculation as a personal contempt, as if he is not interested in the way you can meet her. This is understandable, because the sexual disorder of this kind may distort who want the true picture of the relationship of love. It just was not prepared to help him get rid of the disorder. When he proposed to go along to consult a doctor, she said: «All that you need to do is to behave like a man».
Men's inability to achieve erection or ejaculation control sometimes depends on the attitude that he feels for his lover. Most men with whom I talked about premature ejaculation, were passionately in love with their partners, they are very sexually brought them. The only problem: they have lost confidence in their ability to meet them and for whatever reason, feel that it is impossible to return it.
«Sometimes I manage to achieve erection, and then I think: I have been able to do so, I have achieved erection! I hope that God will help and the erection returns. And I thought about it, just from that simple thought, and remembered again opadaet and the erection goes away. I am ready to burst into tears, believe me ... »
Compression, which makes Belinda to delay orgasm Clyde, was a modified version of «compression technology», developed by Masters and Johnson in the sexual-therapy sessions with men suffering from premature ejaculation. The success was astounding - over eleven years Masters and Johnson cured in St. Louis, Missouri, 186 people, and only 4 cases are not treatable.
As soon as a man close to orgasm, his partner suboccluding barrel index finger just under the base of the penis head, thumb pad exerting strong pressure on the bridle (a thin layer of skin lower holes in the head of the urethra).
Usually a 5-10 seconds of compression to contain ejaculation. This is done to show the man that he could keep and maintain erection for a sufficient period of time.
Those who tried this technique, recognized that the compression was more effective if accompanied by a rotation eregirovannogo penis to 90 degrees when opening the urethra at the head is turned at right angles. Female partners should be aware that male eregirovanny member can be compressed with sufficient force to turn and not being afraid to cause him damage, or cause a feeling of discomfort.
Obviously, there comes a time when a man has WANT finish. Indeed, approaching the stage of imminent ejaculation, he still finished, want to or not.
External signs of the male orgasm is that the man suddenly starts pushing into the vagina partner quickly compress it stronger, but for some fraction of a second before ejaculation is trying to infiltrate its maximum depth.
Since the approximation of orgasm in men, all of its external and internal sexual organs involved in the movement of sperm into the urethra. At this point - the first stage of the male orgasm - all muscles of the pelvis involuntarily reduced; similarly reduced pelvic muscles and women at the time of the female orgasm.
Sperm in the testicles are formed, namely, the tortuosity of seminal canals. All the canals opened in the testis semyavynosyaschy duct, which after a few bends to special bag, called the «ampoule semyavynosyaschego duct». After the connection secernent Protocols to the seminal vesicles, semyavynosyaschie ducts form semyavybrasyvayuschie ducts. In ampoule semen awaiting the moment of ejaculation. Seminal vesicles provide a special liquid, which is connected with the secret of the testicles, sperm is formed.
At the same time as the sperm make their way in the ampoule, prostate begins to shrink rhythmically and allocates chalybeate white liquid, forming the basis of sperm and supports the viability of sperm.
When the seminal vesicles release their secret cells of the sperm at this point are discarded from the bag (ampoules), that mixed with the seminal fluid. This is in the department of the urethra, which passes through the prostate gland. At the same time, onion urethra, which is located above the scrotum, and the increasing strain, in preparation for a final and complete emptying.
For a fraction of a second before ejaculation inside the bladder muscle is severely straining, preventing sperm from penetrating into the bladder, and indicate that the ejaculation, in principle, only one way - by maximizing the pressure and compression. Voltage internal bladder muscle also prevents the allocation of urine at the time of sexual intercourse.
Then the exterior muscles of the bladder relax, while all other muscles of the pelvis remain strained. Scientists have yet to be fully apprised of the nature of this reflex, but importantly, it allows semen to get from the prostate through the urethra in the department increased the flesh grounds of the penis. You can compare this pear flesh with a rubber syringe or pears old car horn.
When the bulb is filled with fluid, she drastically reduced, and the semen - sperm-jets ejected from the penis. At the same time, decreasing muscle and perineum, promoting stronger orgasm.
Strength spasm is that if a jet of sperm has no way of obstacles, it can izvergnutsya over a distance of 60 cm, and sometimes more.
Spastic reduction of internal genital organs of men lasted about 3-4 seconds, no more than once per second.
Of course, this is normal and good, if your penis is lifted immediately, as soon as you start to make love. But what if this does not happen? And what happens if during the pre-game or in the midst of sexual intercourse, he had already dropped?
The only thing do not have to do is to panic or lose confidence in the ability to achieve erection. You will be able to control the erection much better than it seemed - with the crucial help and support you will have your mental and physical condition as well as the right response partner.
For the training you need notepad. In two weeks - with the faithful and regular execution of the exercises - you can not only achieve erection when you want, but do it for half that time to spend now.
Divide the notebook into 14 squares. In one square for each day of training. Then each of them divided into sections: the time of erection, the peak time of erection, opadaniya time, length, thickness, and notes. The only thing you need to exercise - tape measure, stopwatch, if available, or wristwatch with second hand and pen to record.
Find a place where every day at the same time, you will be able to remain alone with them without the risk of strangers. I understand that this is not always easy, but we must try. The room should be warm and comfortable, but if circumstances allow you to use the bathroom, do not worry, it will come. But it is clear that in the dressing room, you will not be able to relax sufficiently, so the results may not be as impressive »as if you were alone with him in a warm bedroom. But in any case, significant improvement is guaranteed.
If possible, remove all clothing and loans position that are convenient for practicing masturbation. You do not need to be close at hand any erotic pictures, or magazines - no artificial stimulants. All stimulation should occur in your own brain, it will be one of the ways that you can make the brain work and the penis is in full harmony.
Turn on the stopwatch and simultaneously start to masturbate as soon as you can. Purpose: To quickly reach the highest point. While masturbiruete, think only about the most excitatory things which only come to mind. It is best to let them have tried and reliable sexual fantasies, usually leads to the desired result. For example, a fantasy about ways that you would like to make love to his wife or his girlfriend. Or focus on the sensations that you feel, being in the middle of the day naked in a room and frantically masturbiruya.
If the initial erection not to make a mark in the notebook, how long it took you to achieve full hardness of the penis. Then masturbiruyte so quickly and strongly as it can, to achieve the highest peak, focusing on the fact that most excites you.
Learn to focus. Learn how not to think about anything more than the ever-increasing sexual initiation. Imagination is more zoom you to the highest point. Focus solely on the penis, burning it looks empty.
Here's what Kevin said, 28 years, the department store sells a White Plaine, New York: «I always played with the fantasy that I was kidnapped fifteen girls from the women's gymnasium. They zataskivayut me into his bedroom and undress. Then, and undress themselves. They begin to touch me, touch all parts of my body, then one after another sosut my penis. They climb in my face teats, leads them all over his body - I can not do anything. For hands and legs tied to my bed, and them too much. They are stronger than Tiscali and shaking me and put me on a member of a condom. Here's where my imagination begins to partially coincide with reality. I think that one hand is not mine, but a girl who puts me a condom. I barely touch their heads faster waff fingertips. Sometimes while I stroke the second hand of a testes, representing that it makes the other girl. I have more dreams that one of the girls sits me on the face. Her vagina is placed directly against my mouth, so that I can barely breathe. All a person covered by juice evolved from there. Her face with wide-open mouth bends over my member, pending when it rises. Here's the place to which it usually comes my imagination, and then comes ejaculation ».
I have a lot of descriptions of such fantasies, used by men in masturbation sessions, most of them stated that, by the love with their wives and girlfriends, they resorted to fantasies significantly less. «I have dreams sometimes, when to make love with Fred, but then it becomes an integral part of all fantasies, it said 35-year-old Leonard of San Francisco. Usually, I imagine her slave, as she does not suspect. I bought it on the market either slaves, or somewhere else, in short, it was me. She is constantly naked, and I can deal with her love where want, when want and how to want ».
I was interested to learn that Fred will say about this fantasy, which learns. «I do not know. I can not even imagine how she would respond. Never talked to her about it. Sometimes it is not even a fantasy, but just a feeling. There for a moment and then disappears. I think she thought it would be strange to me ».
I am convinced Leonard to tell Fred about this fantasy and do not be afraid that it would take him for «strange». As it turned out, Fred has found this fantasy for a flattering and exciting. Then they both incorporates it into practice: Leonard tied wrists and ankles to the back of the bed, Fred, knotted scarf his mouth, and they played the whole scene. Both of them admitted that the game had resumed their interest in sex, but Leonard said: «This is my fantasy moves from the head in the bedroom».
At the time the highest point of excitation - which fired the first trickle of sperm - press the stopwatch and the fix is exactly the time that was spent to achieve orgasm from eregirovannogo member. You can also mark yourself, how many sperm izlilos spasm out and how much you have experienced with this.
In the first act of this kind of masturbation, you are likely to very quickly reach the highest point. At the second, third, fourth day, when you are in the usual time you enter the room to engage in masturbation, we found that we would need a little more time to become a member of a firm and you can reach a peak orgasm. You'll also find that your attention was once easy to disperse, after so you have enough of sex acts during the week to get the satisfaction, at least physically.
And here it is now your concentration and training play a major role. You can not feel the approximation of the highest point of excitation, can not even notice how masturbiruete. The main thing is that you need - is to awaken in ourselves the most powerful dreams and fantasies, which only can give your imagination. Then you should work on the penis a way that best promotes your excitement, so quickly and strongly as soon as you can. During masturbation, continue to strain and relax the muscles perineum. This will help to maintain the erection and keep seminal fluid in the prostate gland.
It does not matter what type are your imagination. You have only one goal - accelerating erection and the accompanying high point of enjoyment. On the fifth or sixth day, you notice signs of improvement in concentration, but on the tenth day can feel like you succeeded in retaining control over the erection of penis and the extension of time to enjoy higher.
You may have noticed that the sperm did not vomit as much as the first day, but semyaizverzhenie can be increased, because now through the perineum muscles you can control the process. The number of sperm is increased precisely because of the effective stimulation of the prostate.
You do not immediately see the improvement. But we must learn from the failures. You know exactly what fantasy guarantee erection, and what does not. Perhaps you create a new fantasy, even more erotic than ever. You will also learn the limits of their abilities to concentrate on the most important.
High sex depends on how much you absorbed what was being done - a pleasure to partner, get the pleasure that it gives you.
Many men, having mastered the science of purification of thinking different from everyday cares and concerns, external disturbance, observed that this activity contributes to the achievement of very good high-performance sex. As I said 27-year-old Denise from Los Angeles: «You can not enjoy the exercise love fully, if half of your brain is still trying to cope with household budget or busy issue choice menu for tomorrow's dinner. There was a time when I used to love classes half a brain. When Rick told me: «What is it with you? Why are you such a cold? »- Until I got what I was doing. Sex was turned into a routine, like shopping trips. I make love just like walking with a bag on the market or to remove children from school ».
After two weeks of high-speed masturbation you'll see that your ability to achieve erection and rapid ejaculation has improved markedly. You can do exercises on the high-speed masturbation is not necessarily a period of two weeks, but longer, as long as you need to learn to focus and improve their sexual ability.
Interestingly, the high-masturbation may help men suffering from premature ejaculation. Although it might seem that the ability to reach the highest point very quickly - not the most necessary. Controlling ejaculation, which provide these exercises, equally good solutions to any problems that can occur in men to achieve erection and maximum sexual pleasure.
If, however, after two weeks of practicing high-speed masturbation you will still continue to suffer from premature ejaculation, try to switch to the exercises with the slowing masturbation. This implies masturbation strong, but slow, and with the impending orgasm, you will need to make a pause. In other words, you should postpone the time of ejaculation and how can this continue with the sexual samostimulyatsiyu.
After three weeks of such exercises male semen vomit before, not having to enter the vestibule, discovers that he is now able to continue sexual intercourse without ejaculation and «three or four minutes ... yet I have not started to worry about it », then« to five minutes or more - until I do so want ». The person who sent the letter, certainly knew that his penis - this is not a separate creature, which he had not the power, but control of its own body.
Men do not have to all this activity with a high / maloskorostnoy masturbation itself. Depending on the nature of sexual problems and individual circumstances can be even more helpful if you assist him in reaching the highest point would be a woman.
Clyde, 32-year-old driller from Paskaguly, Mississippi, wrote: «I have always had problems because I was finishing too quickly. It began with my first wife, who was two years older than me. It was always the impression that it was a nurse taking care of our relationship, and that I was very fidget ... and causes premature ejaculation. Sometimes I was just enough to touch her «киски», and I immediately regurgitate it Cursed place. When I got married a second time (to Belinda), at first everything was in order, but then I started to worry again about their sexual problems, and has come about the same ... ejaculation without the slightest strain. Then I tried bystroskorost-ing masturbation. I can not imagine how it could help me. Since the early semyaizverzhenie was my problem, I do not think it would be useful to know that shows how to achieve semyaizverzheniya even faster. But in reality, the exercises have given me more control over semyaizverzheniem, giving the first control himself. I began to understand that the care of your body, and began to understand his reactions ».
After two weeks of classes bystroskorostnoy masturbation alone with a Clyde decided to try to slow masturbation using Be-Linda. He tried, as far as could delay the onset of orgasm and semyaizverzheniya teaching while Belinda, how to compress his penis to prevent premature ejaculation.
«We lezhim side by side in one bed undressed, and Belinda is very slowly massages my member until it was not filled with blood and not zatyazheleet. I felt the desire to ask it to expedite their handling, but it continued to do so slowly, up and down, up and down, compressing the penis shaft and head massaging fingertips.
The first signs, I began to feel after a few moments after the start of the exercises - in the depth between the legs. Because of my membership began to sap, and soon Belinda massage my head, as if floating in the greases. I knew that there would have only two or three movements, that I had finished, and therefore asked her to stop. She was firmly squeezed my dick, thumb upersya just below the head of the base channel member nakrutila around his little finger, wrist vyvernuv and the excitement gradually subsided.
We have again and again repeated this, and so lasted about forty-five minutes. Never before had I not kept for so long, not reaching orgasm and ejaculation ... although this time I just was not ready to finish. As. only I felt that just about sorvus up, I gave the command to stop Belinda, she stopped massage and compress the member, as I described above.
Finally we decided that I had been able lasted a long time. Belinda climbed on me and sent me a member of «pussycat». I usually do not like when it is on top ... have a sense that I can not control themselves, that I am not a real man. But now I feel different. I moved to a member as deeply into it. Then upersya in the bed and lifted his hips so that Belinda practically hung on me, not touching the bed. My member penetrated so deeply that even touched on the uterus, and it made her cry.
I still continue to worry until suddenly did not understand that is not going to stop, and immediately calmed down. I am quite able to control the sensitivity and the onset of orgasm. Belinda finished the first - it was surprising - the first time she had finished before me. I could feel a pulse, and her vagina clench me a member with such force that you do not even believe it. Then I also finished, but how! I was just in pieces, of five or six times in a row. Fair call, I thought that the unconscious. Belinda rose from me, and the sperm is literally poured out of her vagina on my thighs ».
Clyde is a classic case of men with premature ejaculation. His marital relationships and conflicts with the first wife contributed to the development and consolidation of the painful condition. As Masters and Johnson, in «Human sexual inadequaty»: «man impotent wife is inclined to perceive as an actor, its sense of self-humiliation. After all, she - the only creature who knows well the depth of his inadequacy: he feels that he could not take a man in her presence. Women with these or other disadvantages of sexual function, can achieve revenge itself, or at least an apology - verbal attacks or any similar means. In fact, in such a situation, it should be entirely on the side of her husband's persistent desire to overcome his alienation to help ».
The first wife of Clyde - although he and answer it too kindly - considered it premature ejaculation as a personal contempt, as if he is not interested in the way you can meet her. This is understandable, because the sexual disorder of this kind may distort who want the true picture of the relationship of love. It just was not prepared to help him get rid of the disorder. When he proposed to go along to consult a doctor, she said: «All that you need to do is to behave like a man».
Men's inability to achieve erection or ejaculation control sometimes depends on the attitude that he feels for his lover. Most men with whom I talked about premature ejaculation, were passionately in love with their partners, they are very sexually brought them. The only problem: they have lost confidence in their ability to meet them and for whatever reason, feel that it is impossible to return it.
«Sometimes I manage to achieve erection, and then I think: I have been able to do so, I have achieved erection! I hope that God will help and the erection returns. And I thought about it, just from that simple thought, and remembered again opadaet and the erection goes away. I am ready to burst into tears, believe me ... »
Compression, which makes Belinda to delay orgasm Clyde, was a modified version of «compression technology», developed by Masters and Johnson in the sexual-therapy sessions with men suffering from premature ejaculation. The success was astounding - over eleven years Masters and Johnson cured in St. Louis, Missouri, 186 people, and only 4 cases are not treatable.
As soon as a man close to orgasm, his partner suboccluding barrel index finger just under the base of the penis head, thumb pad exerting strong pressure on the bridle (a thin layer of skin lower holes in the head of the urethra).
Usually a 5-10 seconds of compression to contain ejaculation. This is done to show the man that he could keep and maintain erection for a sufficient period of time.
Those who tried this technique, recognized that the compression was more effective if accompanied by a rotation eregirovannogo penis to 90 degrees when opening the urethra at the head is turned at right angles. Female partners should be aware that male eregirovanny member can be compressed with sufficient force to turn and not being afraid to cause him damage, or cause a feeling of discomfort.
Obviously, there comes a time when a man has WANT finish. Indeed, approaching the stage of imminent ejaculation, he still finished, want to or not.
External signs of the male orgasm is that the man suddenly starts pushing into the vagina partner quickly compress it stronger, but for some fraction of a second before ejaculation is trying to infiltrate its maximum depth.
Since the approximation of orgasm in men, all of its external and internal sexual organs involved in the movement of sperm into the urethra. At this point - the first stage of the male orgasm - all muscles of the pelvis involuntarily reduced; similarly reduced pelvic muscles and women at the time of the female orgasm.
Sperm in the testicles are formed, namely, the tortuosity of seminal canals. All the canals opened in the testis semyavynosyaschy duct, which after a few bends to special bag, called the «ampoule semyavynosyaschego duct». After the connection secernent Protocols to the seminal vesicles, semyavynosyaschie ducts form semyavybrasyvayuschie ducts. In ampoule semen awaiting the moment of ejaculation. Seminal vesicles provide a special liquid, which is connected with the secret of the testicles, sperm is formed.
At the same time as the sperm make their way in the ampoule, prostate begins to shrink rhythmically and allocates chalybeate white liquid, forming the basis of sperm and supports the viability of sperm.
When the seminal vesicles release their secret cells of the sperm at this point are discarded from the bag (ampoules), that mixed with the seminal fluid. This is in the department of the urethra, which passes through the prostate gland. At the same time, onion urethra, which is located above the scrotum, and the increasing strain, in preparation for a final and complete emptying.
For a fraction of a second before ejaculation inside the bladder muscle is severely straining, preventing sperm from penetrating into the bladder, and indicate that the ejaculation, in principle, only one way - by maximizing the pressure and compression. Voltage internal bladder muscle also prevents the allocation of urine at the time of sexual intercourse.
Then the exterior muscles of the bladder relax, while all other muscles of the pelvis remain strained. Scientists have yet to be fully apprised of the nature of this reflex, but importantly, it allows semen to get from the prostate through the urethra in the department increased the flesh grounds of the penis. You can compare this pear flesh with a rubber syringe or pears old car horn.
When the bulb is filled with fluid, she drastically reduced, and the semen - sperm-jets ejected from the penis. At the same time, decreasing muscle and perineum, promoting stronger orgasm.
Strength spasm is that if a jet of sperm has no way of obstacles, it can izvergnutsya over a distance of 60 cm, and sometimes more.
Spastic reduction of internal genital organs of men lasted about 3-4 seconds, no more than once per second.
